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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 7:10 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
OMG OMG OMG i am so unbelievably sorry.
((((Phoenix))))
i am just heartbroken for you. please let us know if there is anything you need.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
lostworld ( member #19197) posted at 7:17 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
I have no words for such great tragedy. I am so very sorry, and I can't even imagine the unrelenting sorrow in your heart.
Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married Over 30 years w/ grown kids
Dday 1: 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
R'd
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.
copout ( member #22421) posted at 7:18 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Your prison is walking through this world all alone.
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 7:22 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Dear Phoenix. There are no words. Tears fall from my eyes. My mother's heart breaks for you. 
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 7:24 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
((((Phoenix)))) I'm so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
hill ( member #12166) posted at 7:26 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
((((Phoenix)))
I have been thinking of you and your family daily. I can't believe this, I just can't. DS is in my prayers, as are you.
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 7:28 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
(((((Phoenix)))))
I am in tears of your loss. I can not imagine what you are going through. I wish so badly I could take it all from you and your family.
Please know we are here and pray for and your'.
I have no words
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 7:31 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
There are no words.
Phoenix, I know it is little comfort, but I am thinking of your DS and you and your family. It is a tragedy that defies any attempt to make sense of it. What a huge and undeserved loss. No one should have to suffer this. We are all holding you in our thoughts and sending you strength and whatever peace is possible in this situation.
((((Phoenix)))))
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 7:32 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
No words, my dear Phoenix, just tons of hugs and prayers.
I am so very sorry.
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
boontje ( member #33247) posted at 7:40 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Since I have no words that could possibly comfort you right now Phoenix, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. ((phoenix and family))
Me: BS
Dday: June 2011
Courage is not having the strength to go on; it is going on when you don't have the strength.
--Theodore Roosevelt
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 7:41 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Oh my goodness... I am so very sorry for all of your loss, Phoenix. I cannot imagine what you are going through and I just don't understand any of this.
Hugs and prayers.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 7:45 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 7:47 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Oh Phoenix....
There are no words anymore.
((((HUGS)))
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
AgainandAgain ( member #34835) posted at 7:48 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
My heart is breaking for you Phoenix. I am sitting here bawling. I wish there were something I could offer you but I know there is not.
Please know we are here for you through all this. I can not imagine your heartache but we all are here for you through all this.
You and your family are in my prayers.
((((((((((((((((((((Phoenix and family))))))))))))))))))
Afraid2LoveAgain ( member #11185) posted at 7:49 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
You and your family are in my thoughts. I am so very, very sorry.
BW -- 58
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 8:00 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Oh (((Phoenix))) I am so sorry.
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 8:02 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Phoenix, I started this message a few ways, I just don't have the words to express how sad I am for you and your family.
Sending you (((hugs))) and strength to get through this difficult time.
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
sunandmoon ( member #10180) posted at 8:04 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
(((phoenix)))
I am so very sorry. There are no words for the losses you are enduring. My thoughts and prayers are and will continue to be with you.
sunandmoon
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 8:09 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Edith ( member #38337) posted at 8:10 PM on Tuesday, April 15th, 2014
Oh Phoenix, I am so terribly sorry to hear this unbelievable tragedy. Praying for you and your family.
E.
The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. John 1:5
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