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 Angel177 (original poster member #37274) posted at 2:59 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

He was dead in his crib yeaterday morning. He had just turned 13 months old. I don't know what happened. He was perfectly healthy.

The last two year have been filled with more pain then any one person should deal with in a lifetime. Why me?

Anyone know of a good support website for grieving parents? I need a lifeline like this.

[This message edited by Angel177 at 9:01 AM, July 3rd (Thursday)]

Me:BS
Him:WH
D-Day Sept. 14/12...R started Dec. 3/12
D-Day 2 Oct. 12/19 different OW
In limbo

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Kalleigh ( member #1214) posted at 3:03 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss, I will be sending my prayers

I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 3:04 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

OMG Angel!!!

I'm so sorry. ((( Angel and DS )))

Do you have family/friends nearby for support?

Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:04 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh, Angel! I am so very sorry.

The Compassionate Friends is a support organization for parents grieving the loss of their child. You can find them here - http://www.compassionatefriends.org/home.aspx

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 3:04 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh Angel, I am so sorry. I don't have any experience with this, but I'm sure someone will come along soon.

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 3:11 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh god. I'm so very sorry.

(((((((((((Angel and family))))))))))

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 3:11 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh my God. I am so so sorry. There are just no words.

This community helped a friend of mine after she lost her baby:

http://www.glowinthewoods.com/

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 3:12 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh Angel....oh I'm so sorry.

There are no words.

I'm so sorry.

(((((((((Angel)))))))))))

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cayc ( member #21964) posted at 3:12 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((Angel)))

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windows ( member #14054) posted at 3:13 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I am so sorry for you.

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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 3:17 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((Angel and Family)))

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine.

Sending lots of strength and support your way.

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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 3:21 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I'm so sorry hun. ((((Angel & DS)))

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 3:26 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I'm so very sorry for you loss. There are no words.

((((((((((Angel & DS))))))))))

"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll

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What2Do76 ( member #30349) posted at 3:27 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I am so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

D-Day 11/20/10
Love Is Not Constantly Wondering If You Are Making the Biggest Mistake of Your Life

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imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 3:35 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

((((Angel177))))

I don't even know what to say, I'm sorry doesn't seem to cover it.

Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

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TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 3:37 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

((((Angel177))))

So, so, sorry.

"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 3:37 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

Oh honey!!! I am so sorry!!! (((Angel)))

44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:40 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

(((Angel and family)))

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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 3:41 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I'm so sorry Angel.

((((((Angel & family))))))

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 3:44 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014

I am so terribly sorry

Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.

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