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MollyMoo ( member #45749) posted at 3:49 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

I hope you're okay, NP5 *hugs*

fbgf - 32
WPOSXBF- 33 - Together almost 10 years

Multiple D-Days
Multiple False R's
No children brought into this mess, thank god!

"That "unicorn" is probably a donkey with a dildo stuck on it's head"

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 notperfect5 (original poster member #43330) posted at 4:26 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

Oh. My. God.

Please pray for my family.

Me: 55 BH Her: 52 WW - Edith12
DDay 8/13 EA, fake R
Turned PA on 4/27/14 and fake R
PA during MC and my IC and her IC through 12/14
Polygraph on 4/30/15, TT 5/5/15.. TT on 10/4/15, 2nd Poly and TT 11/17/15
DD's 23, 21, 18, 15 DS

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 4:27 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

We are. We really truly are.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 4:27 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

We are.

BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10



..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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Lark ( member #43773) posted at 4:30 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

Am so sorry np5, we are :(

“It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” - Dumbledore

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CanoeVA ( member #46071) posted at 4:31 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

Please pray for my family.

Done.

Me = BH
fWW- 2014 affair most of year; EA Feb/March became PA April until DDay
Married 1986
DDay- 12/08/14
2 adult children, mid 20s
OM = Wife's best friend's brother
We're both working on R

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MollyMoo ( member #45749) posted at 4:32 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

I am not a praying person, but good thoughts and wishes for you and your family.

fbgf - 32
WPOSXBF- 33 - Together almost 10 years

Multiple D-Days
Multiple False R's
No children brought into this mess, thank god!

"That "unicorn" is probably a donkey with a dildo stuck on it's head"

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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 4:33 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

We have been brother.

We will continue to do so. How can we help?

Strength

BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle

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Sal1995 ( member #39099) posted at 4:41 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

Praying for you and the family, Np5.

BH
Reconciled

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Igotthis ( member #47771) posted at 4:42 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

((((((((NP5)))))))))

We are praying

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earthangel ( member #44357) posted at 4:44 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

(((NP5)))

You, and your family, are in the thoughts of many of us here. Sending strength and comfort at this time.

Is there anything else we can do to help and support you?

Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it’s bad - it's experience.

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 4:46 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

Sending positive thoughts, NP5. We're here for you when you're ready.

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raven3321 ( new member #43647) posted at 4:49 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

Just did.

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ForwardMotion ( member #32608) posted at 4:57 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

Peace to you all

me - BH

'It's not the end of everything,
It's just end of everything you know.'

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marbou888 ( member #47264) posted at 4:59 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

That bad, OMG!

So Sorry!

Praying for you and your family.

Women don't fall in love with doormats, they wipe their feet on them.

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Gradient ( new member #30894) posted at 5:02 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

We're all here for you, NP5, when you are ready to share.

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Anik1989 ( member #44228) posted at 5:02 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

NP5, we are here for you, whenever you will be ready to receive some help, some advice or just some safe place to vent.

Thank you for updating us, glad to know you are still in one piece (physically, probably not emotionally).

{{{{{Strenght}}}}}

Me: 26 WH: 26 Married for 3 years, together for 6.
OEA for 3 months with some sexual video messages
DDay - 14 June 2014
NC - 6 July 2014 (was away in Europe, so couldn't stop online conversations)
TT - 21 July 2014
Currently in R.

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still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 5:06 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

You got a whole family, here on SI, sending you, and your family, all the prayers, mojo and strength you need!

Please take care of yourself, and your kids.

I am so sorry np5.

Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23

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HobbesTheTiger ( member #41477) posted at 5:09 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

We're here for you. Just don't do anything rash or hurt yourself or anyone, ok? Things will get better!

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PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 5:11 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

Your family is in my prayers.

BS Fwh

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