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This thread is like a car wreck for me. Disgusting topic to my mind, but I can't seem to look away. I'm a twisted individual.

Okay - swallowing. I never cared if a woman did or not. Either gulp it down or don't, but don't make a production of it either way. I don't need you to show me you swallowed "like a good girl", and I also don't need to see you heaving and gagging as your naked ass runs to the bathroom to spit what you consider to be a mix of battery acid and Satan's ass sweat from your mouth.

Overall technique - forget everything you've ever seen in a porn video. Try that weird-ass ball-sucking, slap yourself in the face with my dick, spit all over it like a Mastiff begging for treats - and I'm going to take my dick away from you, put it's slimy little butt in my undies and I'm going home to wash up and then jerk off like a normal person.

What's disgusting about a woman playing your skin flute ?

Personal preference. No need to giggle. I'm willing to explain. Most men like to sit back and laugh but few ever try to understand how a guy can feel differently than they do.

Nope not at all - I am a firm believer in whatever floats your boat. I read some of your posts in the past few months and understand that sex in general repulses or doesn't interest you.

No big deal- carry on

ADryHeat thanks for the M&Ms!

I appreciate everyone’s feedback. Side note: having an altoid in your mouth while preforming oral sex causes a really intense hot and cold effect for the receiver which is some is VERY appreciated. I’ve heard you shouldn’t use the mini altoids because they can get lodged in small spots.

Hands on/Cupping of the Sackage is helpful too while having the act performed. That extra warmth does a body good

oh yea...

I prefer laying down.. mainly cause my guys are very sensitive and if the tongue or mouth hits them.. balance fail..

Also a slow non-stop wet tongue trace from the beginning of the scrotum to the head (right down the middle)... oh dam...

Also, if you swallow like you would drinking through a beverage straw.. and yes, the deeper the better..

and a final one.. if you can go all the way down... softly clamp your lips at the base..

I had an ex that loved to experiment with oral stuff..

I need to get off the dam bus now ASAP!!! Been waay too long.

[This message edited by LilBlackCat at 4:45 PM, March 9th (Friday)]

About swallowing: very hot. If she doesn't swallow and spits, not as hot. If she takes her mouth out and doesn't let any get in, even less hot. If she says she loves the taste -

6M$M, I think your perspective is helpful, and actually sometimes super relatable. I HATED receiving oral from XWH, and didn’t get the big deal. It annoyed me...and I mean everything about it did, and I would cringe when he wanted to perform oral.

Of course, later my opinion changed, but that’s not the point. Lots of women aren’t into receiving for a variety of reasons ranging from self-consciousness to bad history to just not enjoying the sensation, and no one side eyes us for it really. But if a man isn’t into it we are shocked.

I’ve found the best way to find out what a man likes is to - wait for it! - ask. The guy I mentioned before? I asked him to tell me what he liked, he did, a good time was had by all...but a REALLY good time by him for sure. And, FYI, what he liked in particular (firm grasp at the base right when it was getting intense, for one), was totally opposite from what the man before him liked (deep, no hands on shaft). So you never know, unless you ask!

Also: are we getting to reddit levels of detail yet?

Whatever position allows it to go deeper for me. Standing is great when i want to feel dominating and sitting is great when i want to feel like I'm being served. In the car is awesome. Waking up in the morning to it happening kicks ass. And yeah, enthusiasm beats technique every single time.

In fact lack of enthusiasm trumps technique too. Reluctance kills libido.

So, dive in head first, I say.

My husband can not “finish” if he’s not lying down during oral...I add that only to agree that its a personal preference that varies from person to person. Take your cues from your partner and go with the flow...

[This message edited by sassylee at 6:22 PM, March 9th (Friday)]

Standing....

...on the train.

...at the supermarket.

...at the Dentist's.

"Satan's ass sweat".

OMG this thread is great, even though I now feel like I accidentally hit "like" on a FB post of someone I'm stalking.

Back to privately monitoring this topic and

Nope not at all - I am a firm believer in whatever floats your boat. I read some of your posts in the past few months and understand that sex in general repulses or doesn't interest you.

No big deal- carry on

I appreciate the acknowledgment.

This has been rather educational. Though how would I know if I meet someone like 6m$m who detests it? Do you tell a woman upfront? How do you let them know? I wouldn't want to embarrass myself trying to find out he thinks it's gross.

Simplicity a huge part of the appeal for me is watching said guy get turned on and seeing the look on his face he’s overcome with pleasure. If he wasn’t into it I’d definitely want to know. I think wait for the topic to come up of being physically intimate and just say that you don’t Perrier that at all but that you prefer _____.

When a relationship would become physical (which I tried to push back as long as possible), I would be very upfront about what I like and don't like. Women would be polite and say "that's fine" but it was pretty obvious they weren't keen on getting physical with a guy like me. They'd go through with it though.

Although I dislike sex in general and would prefer to not have it at all, I am capable of performing the act, but I do so with all the enthusiasm of a robot. I had sex because I felt obligated to.

Not to worry - there are very, very, very few weirdo guys like me in the world. Most are happy to have any form of sex, so it's highly unlikely you'll meet a guy that doesn't like blowjobs.

[This message edited by 6M$Man at 7:01 AM, March 10th (Saturday)]

Not my usual type of thread, but chiming in with another plug for *enthusiasm*.

If you can perform oral like his penis is the most delicious, exciting, arousing, Turkish Delight-level thing in your life...like it's the biggest turn-on you've ever had, you just can't get enough, *including* through orgasm (that can look like a lot of things)...

...then you've succeeded in giving a guy an incredible, seriously unforgettable sexual experience.

Position matters *0* compared to attitude.

Wow.....fanning myself... I have little experience with this act...so I would take any pointers from a man on what makes it pleasurable. How do I do it?? I’m always very reluctant to perform because I’m not sure what makes it feel good as my xwh would never talk about it.or sex But, i think it’s hot and would like to pass it on a to my future BF. I’m all ears.....🤗😊😊

[This message edited by hereagain2 at 9:20 AM, March 10th (Saturday)]

Ok, guess I'm giving my two cents on swallowing. Go deep, dick all the way back in your throat, and keep sucking. Stuff goes straight down. You don't even taste it, hardly notice it at all. Thats my tip. To me, spitting just seems... rude.

What exactly are you sucking..😦😦. The base ? Or ?

And, How do you avoid teeth?

[This message edited by hereagain2 at 9:21 AM, March 10th (Saturday)]