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Oh God now prostate massage. Hope I can wait 'till Saturday.

nscale56 - Pegging is an alternative as well. Google it.

Would any men want to talk about milking? Especially when tied to BJ's? Honestly...I've never done the two together...but I would be interested to see what you people with prostates would care to say about it .

No. That's what I have to say about it. My doctor is allowed to stick his finger up my ass, but only because it's a procedure and my genetic line is prone to prostate cancer.

If a woman tried sticking her finger up my butt, she'd be 86'd permanently.

Concur with $6mil. My rear end is exit only. Even squeezing a cheek too close to the hole is a no-no.

Oh...ok...NOW I understand why prison recidivism rates are so freaking high...

Feel the same about my butt. No go area. That said, I do find something quite sexy about the same on a lady. I don't want to touch it or go in there but I suppose it's the ultimate intimacy when it's there in front of your face. Or something.

I'll get my coat.

I suppose it's the ultimate intimacy when it's there in front of your face.

Yes!!! Especially if she has nice large and soft cheeks!

This is probably TMI, especially because I know people from here IRL but... I let the ex stick her finger in my butt once because she REALLY wanted to try it. It was... unpleasant. Definitely not my cup of tea.

I suppose it's the ultimate intimacy when it's there in front of your face.

Yes! I agree, especially with doggy. It's not of much interest but she's just completely exposed and I like that.

I LOVE BJ's!!! I am a bonafide cocksucker !!! I can truly say I haven't met a cock I didn't like . Cut or uncut...thick...thin...they are ALL a tasty delight .

Wish there were a clap emoji on here because this deserves that. I love this kind of attitude and I seek it out in the dating world. Believe it or not you can tell if you're sitting in front of the kind of person who knows how to have fun in bed pretty easily. And why not? Sex is one of the greatest pleasures in life. It's completely natural and we should enjoy it as much as possible.

WOW...REALLY ??? Well...that answers MY question . Thank y'all very much gentlemen for that survey!!!

Um...I apologize emptyinokc...I didn't see your post before responding to the others. What I wrote wasn't meant for what you said...and the way it has come out...after your post...well...it looks kind of awkward .

To be honest, I would much rather give oral than receive it. More often than not, a blowjob involves the scraping of teeth, which is really painful.

I'm the same. I'm really turned on by going down on a woman, so that would be true even of a decent BJ. However, I've not been with many women who can give a good one (no teeth, plus good technique). It's fine for foreplay and easier to do in a wild place, like driving a car, in the office etc. Don't get me wrong, it usually feels good for a while and keeps me turned on, but only a few women have ever gotten me off that way. If I had ended up with one of them long term then my answer might be very different.

Standing up with her on knees in from is my preference (or 69 as you might guess). I would imagine this is just a matter of personal preference though, doubt you'll find a consensus.

Okay - swallowing. I never cared if a woman did or not. Either gulp it down or don't, but don't make a production of it either way. I don't need you to show me you swallowed "like a good girl", and I also don't need to see you heaving and gagging as your naked ass runs to the bathroom to spit what you consider to be a mix of battery acid and Satan's ass sweat from your mouth.

I most certainly don't want to gag due to attempting to please him. Im guessing that would be so disrespectful and demeaning to him. So, when we were actually still having sex, I could tell when he was very close, so I would exchange my hand for my mouth.

He never indictated to me that it was a turn off or disappointment to him. But now I am wondering if he was being honest, after reading all of this.

Can someone, to whom the swallow is very important, please share what would be the next best acceptable thing if it is an issue like mine.

For me, what happens with the cum is not really important (though I do like to mix it up). What IS important (like $6M said) is not to make a big production about how icky or gross that stuff is. It is a turn on for a woman to be turned on by semen and she can do some really hot things with it if so inclined, but I'm not going to be disappointed unless she is openly disgusted by it.

I also don't need to see you heaving and gagging as your naked ass runs to the bathroom to spit

This is caused when the deposit goes down the wrong chute.

LilBlackCat !!!

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Just to add another couple of cynical pennies to the discussion.

One piece of advice I'd give to women - don't act like you're doing me some sort of favor by sucking my dick. You aren't doing anything earth-shattering for me nor anything that will ever burn it's way into my memory. Don't pretend that you're doing it for my benefit when I can very easily discern when you're actually doing it for your own ego - if you're the type that needs to feel like you suck a mean dick, I'll know it.

It seems doubtful that any woman would go down on a man for HER ego.

It seems doubtful that any woman would go down on a man for HER ego

Really?

Is it so hard to imagine that somebody might want to perform that particular act for the power they believe they have over another person's pleasure and that by providing orgasm to another there is a bit of a power trip of saying, even if it's in one's own head, of "yep, you're welcome".