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because they can get lodged in small spots.

Sally- you can't say "small" when talking about our dicks. (even if.....)

Phantasmagoria- can I get the number of your dentist?

BJ's are my forte . I am with redfury on this...you can tell when a man is going to "blow"...so position it to the back of your throat...and if you don't have a gag reflex...deep throat him...and ENJOY the release .

hereagain2...you can practice the sucking with your own tongue . Put it up to your palette...then suck. To ME...I like to swallow...pull the cock closer to the back of my throat as I swallow is my technique.

The thing about teeth...that I have found is you have to adjust your BJ to the guys penis . Some penises go outward and down...some go toward their belly and up...and various other ways. The men who prefer for the woman to be kneeling and looking at them...I bet their penises go outward and down . This way would make giving a BJ perfect for them...and no teeth would touch them. A man whose penis goes upward and toward his body...it would be very hard for a woman on her knees to be able to give a BJ without teeth touching him. EVERYTHING is doable...but I have found that the most enjoyable BJ's are those where the mouth and penis are compatible .

I can only speak for ME...but when I think of the SMOOTH head in my mouth...my tongue feeling all around the base of that sweet mushroom...and then pushing my tongue against that rock hard shaft as I go down...then sucking on that sweet thing as I go back up it. OH MAN....it just doesn't get any better than that!!! I LOVE fondling the balls as I suck too. When they start drawing up into the body...I know it is about time. Then I take a deep breath...and impale myself on top of that monster! It doesn't take long for it to explode...mmmmm...sweet release!!!

There are several things I have found that work for ME. I had my tonsils taken out as a child. Talking to other women...no tonsils means very little gag reflex . I also can hold my breath for a long time...so deep throating is not an issue for me. The men I have given BJ's to LOVE that I use my mouth and not my hands to stimulate their cock. The porn movies tend to show women using hands more...for the visual effect I guess...but hands are meant for massaging balls!!! While the men are releasing...placing your finger in the area between the balls and his asshole...and massaging there will feel real GOOD to them too from what I have found .

Enthusiasm is definitely a turn on!!! Men can help with this too...by being CLEAN...and eating certain foods. I have heard pineapple makes the semen taste sweeter...but I have no idea if this is true or not. I do know that michelob ultra can make semen taste bitter!!!

...well my, my.

If I had ever encountered a woman who liked blowjobs ^that^ much, I might have developed an appreciation of them rather than an aversion.

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That's awesome.

Geez wanttobe!

You’ve got my dander up with that expose. Whew!

I read the pineapple advice in a Pen...hse forum magazine a long while back. There were even products marketed for sweetened jizz.

I “Man”icured my lawn for my lady as well. Hairs are pesky for both of the species.

There was no safer feeling in the world than having her doe eyes sparkling with joy and excitement looking at me For me it’s an act of TOTAL ACCEPTANCE of who I am as a man and that Rocks My World.

BUZZKILL: Use of fellatio as a manipulation tool, or (non-playful) barter/Bargaining chip.

Wow...😊. So keep your lips around teeth the entire time! Correct?!

Yeah, teeth are the dick killer. Teeth are the little death that bring obliteration.

Some guys do appreciate a teeny bit of teeth. I guess that might be an outlier but as was said earlier you have to ask and communicate with the recipient to find out what they like.

Minnesota - I meant the pee hole ain’t nobody want a large pee hole...I think 😳🤷🏻‍♀️

....like she's on Death Row and this is her last meal....?!?!

This thread reminds me I'm on the bus .

Lick the balls - gently. Oh yes, that's the spot...

Omg an “R” warning? Lmao, this passed into at least an XX a few posts ago.

Yes, enthusiasm first, then lick, play, touch, balls include or not, look up, look down, when going for the kill, cover your teeth, suction suck deep, swallow and VOILA, no wet spot. Lol.

Enjoy the awesome massages and oral coming your way when you master the art of the bj.

You’ve got my dander up with that expose.

Strutter1960...so that's what they are calling it nowadays ??!!

SallyShrink81...I've never tried altoids...but listermine breath strips can be very COOL . My H would NOT want the cinnamon ones used on him...but I have no problem with either one used on me .

6M$Man...I was shocked to find out that there are people who DON'T like giving head . I was an ignorant Catholic girl who was determined to stay a virgin until my wedding night...but had no problem putting penises in my mouth !!! When I found out "giving head" was called oral SEX...well...I knew my soul was DAMNED !! Thank God He forgives ignorance .

Wow...😊. So keep your lips around teeth the entire time! Correct?!

Not exactly.

Try it. Pull your lips over your teeth, and feel how firm and rigid your lips feel. While I know some men like that feeling, many many men prefer (or perhaps also like, alternated) the feeling of your lips soft and looser. That’s more of a ‘duck lips’ kind of maneuver...which is perhaps why women make that face to try to look ‘sexy’. There’s a fine art to learning not to scrape while also not tensing your mouth to cover teeth. Next time you’re - ahem - in the act, suck in your cheeks a bit, press the tongue to him, and try to relax your lips. That, in my experience, is the magic combination more than strictly trying to cover your teeth.

PS: I SO want to see the other side of this, re performance tips for men.

“There’s a fine art to it”

LMFAO

I almost agree with that. My current GF told me she took a class on giving head. She must have gotten an F in it though. She is willing to do it anyway I ask, I just haven’t had the patience to teach her just yet as I just want penetration or to go scuba diving.

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Omg! Score! This thread got a rated R!

I didn’t even know an R-rating was a thing!

Fanning myself...good to know my hormones aren't completely dead... .

I like giving oral, I'm good at it, and damn, I have been on the bus too long. Hopefully it's like riding a bike...otherwise if I ever get off the bus, I can always refer back to this thread for instructions .

LMFAO that the thread title has been changed to “Warning , Graphic” lmfbo

Want2beHappy...... great directions.

I'll second (third? fourth?) the eye-contact thing. That's key. Maybe not constant eye contact, but frequent wicked glances work great too, so mix it up a bit.