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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 5:22 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2019
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 6:18 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2019
I'm so sorry for your loss.
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 11:31 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss.
The only person you can change is yourself.
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 11:58 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2019
I am so sorry for the loss of your dear son 
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
sadcat ( member #8637) posted at 1:29 AM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2019
Kuwaited and I are so sorry to hear this. You are in our thoughts.
Never let your fear decide your fate.....AWOLNATION
If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.
gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 2:11 AM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2019
No words to express how very sorry I am for your loss.
M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived
It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 2:28 AM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2019
I am so sorry to hear this. A parent should never lose a child. My condolences to you and your family.
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 3:12 AM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2019
Big hugs to you. No words can help, but you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:22 AM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2019
Oh Triple, this is a horrible thing to hear. I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved child.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 6:10 AM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2019
I am so sorry. Sending hugs.
Sparkle0504 ( member #40379) posted at 8:01 AM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2019
(((TT))) I am so sorry to hear this, your heart must be broken. As a mother, it's my biggest dread. I hope you have lots of rl family/friends supporting you through this time.
Me 52 (BS) Him 60 (EXSAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
I'm done. Separated.
Time is always right, to do right. (Dr Martin Luther King)
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 10:46 PM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2019
Tripletrouble, I'm so sorry. I know this will be very difficult for you for a very long time because your every thought and waking time have been occupied for so long by whatever he needed or what you could do for him. It will be so hard to re-think your life. Please get counseling, keep talking to people IRL if you can and posting here. Huge virtual hugs.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 1:48 AM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss of your son.
Ripped62 ( member #60667) posted at 2:08 AM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry.
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 2:08 AM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
k8la ( member #38408) posted at 3:22 AM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
This is so hard! ((((HUGS))))
There are no words, except that I'm here.
Marie2792 ( member #44958) posted at 3:30 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. There aren’t adequate words of comfort. Praying for your family.
Me: BS,48 (41 at dday)Him: WS, 56 (49 at dday)Married 27 years, together 30 Dday : 9/9/14 3 week PA
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 2:22 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Emotionalhell ( member #39902) posted at 1:51 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2019
My deepest sympathy.. I can not imagine.
Me BS x2. 50ish Divorced WH #1. IHS with wayward #2 Dday #1 Oct. 2014Dday # 2 August 2018. Dday #3 December 17th.
BrokenheartedUK ( member #43520) posted at 4:33 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2019
I am so sorry to hear this. You’re in my thoughts. Big hug.
Me: BS
He cheated and then lied. Apparently cheaters lie. Huh. 13 months of false R. Divorced! 8/16 3 teenage kids
"The barn's burnt down
Now
I can see the moon"
-Mizuta Masahide
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