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The emoji's don't lie

Gumdropped posted 6/9/2021 13:50 PM

Posting here as it seems like no one visits/posts in Investigative Tips any more. Open your WS messages ( I have an IPhone), pick yourself or anyone to send a text to ( safer to use yourself in case you accidently send it ) hit the smiley face on the bottom left hand corner to open your most used Emoji's. When I look at my WH last used ones there is an Emoji there that I haven't got from him at least back to Dec 19, 2019. I only delete the texts from him that don't have Emoji's - that way I can see the ones that he uses the most and actually sort of track them. Doesn't make sense that the one I am questioning stays in the top 8 used and he's not sent to me - even when he sends at least me numerous others that appear after it.................thoughts peeps?

stubbornft posted 6/9/2021 13:58 PM

Which emoji is it? I guess if he doesn't send a lot of emojis it would stay there?

Do you think he deletes messages?

What else is going on that is causing you anxiety?

landclark posted 6/9/2021 14:01 PM

I have an iphone as well. My top 8 frequently used (the larger ones on the left) are ones I have never used or received. I have no idea why they are there. Then of the smaller ones, I only use four of the top 15 with any regularity.

So it may be nothing, but if you already have reason to be suspicious then that could be another story.

This0is0Fine posted 6/9/2021 14:27 PM

If it's just 🚀💎👐🌝, he's probably just memeing on WSB. If it's more 🍆💦, that's a problem.

Gumdropped posted 6/9/2021 16:13 PM

Stubbornfit I know for sure he deletes texts and Safari history. Just other bells of mine telling me to pay attention. Landlark I don't have larger or smaller ones they are all the same size. This0is0Fine it's a smiley face with hearts for eyes.....so something he shouldn't be sending anyone but me.....When I look at mine I can see and verify that they are ones that I have sent frequently and the one on the bottom of the 4th row is one I sent last week, so I know the phone is prioritizing them pretty accurately. So what I am saying is the smiley face with the heart must have been sent quite a few times to someone, but it's not me......

hardtomove posted 6/9/2021 16:28 PM

I don't track my WS. I figure what is done in the dark will come into the light. I could not stay if I had to follow, check, or investigate. I won't do it

landclark posted 6/9/2021 16:55 PM

Landlark I don't have larger or smaller ones they are all the same size.

We may have different software versions. My point was that my emojis don't reflect reality at all.

If he's deleting texts and safari history though, that's really the bigger issue. People who have nothing to hide, don't hide.

MickeyBill2016 posted 6/11/2021 01:09 AM

I don't know if this is common knowledge, if you go to the texts and press @ every sent text address will pop up. Even if the text is deleted the iphone keeps the address ready to be used again (I think)

BluerThanBlue posted 6/11/2021 12:07 PM

If he's deleting texts and his browser history on a regular basis, that itself is enough of a reason to be suspicious.

WhoTheBleep posted 6/11/2021 12:43 PM

Not deleting text messages and browser history are rules in the Reconciliation for Dummies handbook. Why is he deleting these things? (Well, I think we know why). More importantly, what consequences have you issued to him for deleting these things?

dogcopter posted 6/11/2021 13:03 PM

God, I hated this part. Googling what the pink heart next to someone's name in Snapchat is vs the yellow one... It is hands down the worst part of anything.

I know the very last time I caught her it was when an app downloaded on our daughters ipad randomly (that's linked to her account). It had some app that would lock up pictures or some shit. I never saw those pictures. There was a second password that would get into a fake account that had everything in it. that was about the time I called my lawyer and asked her to proceed.

I digress... it's a trigger for me. Wading though this hellscape of determining the algorithms that govern our technology was far and away the worst part of all of this...

and usually a waste of time tbh

WhoTheBleep posted 6/11/2021 15:21 PM

and usually a waste of time tbh


DevastatedDee posted 6/11/2021 15:28 PM

I digress... it's a trigger for me. Wading though this hellscape of determining the algorithms that govern our technology was far and away the worst part of all of this...

Yeah, one of the very few things that can still get to me is looking at my cell phone bill. Just logging in makes me feel a twinge of sickness.

I swear it's worth divorce just to not ever have to go through a spouse's phone or any online account ever again.

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