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How do I find what sites a username has been used?

Search on the username and note what sites come up? Tedious for an active poster, but ....

I've searched Google. Nothing comes up.

But it is 100% a username that has been used somewhere. That much I am certain of.

I was going to suggest a Google search but you've done that. Try Yahoo, Bing, Duck Duck go etc.

Tanner..no such luck.

Do you have any ideas/suspicions about what site it may be used for? If so you could go to the site from the web and enter the username. My WH preferred site is a dummy gmail acct. I mistyped what I thought was the correct user name the last time I had suspected, then I realized I keyed it incorrectly and I didn’t get an error. Wasn’t able to actually log in but it was telling. He later admitted to having the fake gmail account to communicate. I’d imagine other sites may be similar?

To edit my previous post - when I keyed in the incorrect username I received an error message. When keyed in correctly that message did not show up - so to me confirmation there was an account. Which WH later confirmed to be true. I’m really sorry it is hell being an investigator in your own marriage. Hugs to you and best of luck in your search for answers!

Did you try usersearch website?

fake gmail account

It's in his Google activity, in his Google account.

It's clearly a username used on a porn, or dating site. I've tried a few of them, and found nothing.

Have you tried looking at browser history to see the sites accessed? That could provide a clue.

Lurking..ding ding ding!

Found it.

Thank you!

You are welcome

Hellfire, this does not seem like an innocuous question. Hope things are ok on your end.

Thanks for asking, IH. Things are very far from ok.

First, my son was in a terrible car accident last week. He's very lucky to be ok.

Second,my father is having a very dangerous surgery in the next few days. He isn't strong enough for the surgery, but if he doesn't have it, he is going to die. So the outlook isn't a good one.

Third, I don't know why I chose now, but I looked at my husband's Google account. I found a username that is highly suspicious. I know he has,at one time,used that name, because when comparing it to my own Google activity, the 3 profiles/usernames in my account, are all that I have certainly used.

I have now found a few sites the username is associated with. So far, a few dating sites, and onlyfans.

And...there is at least 2 other phones linked to his Google account. One may be the phone I know of,and they're counting it twice. I don't know. But the other is an old phone. Still active,and used this last Saturday.

So..basically a burner phone.

I have not confronted. I'm still processing nearly losing my child,and probably losing my dad. I know my husband. If I confront with what I have found, he will deny it,call it a glitch,and pretend he has no idea. He will not take another polygraph. I have to have more evidence.

And right now, I don't have the energy for that confrontation.

And there will be a confrontation. I am not one to just rugsweep, or hand over divorce papers. I have to confront. I'm just gathering evidence in the meantime.

Just tears and prayers for you, friend.

I am so hurt and angry for you. I know you are strong and will get through all of this but why did it have to happen now? We're all here for you.

I'm so glad your son is okay. I will be thinking of your father.

Strength to YOU Hellfire. We're rooting for you.

I’m sorry for everything you’re going through at the moment HellFire. I’m glad your son is well and I wish your father a quick post op recovery.

I will be praying for a successful surgery for your Dad.

Thank God your son is alright!!!

And right now, I don't have the energy for that confrontation.

And there will be a confrontation.

Wise decision. You now KNOW something is off. Knowledge is POWER. With all of the recent life and death situations you have had to deal with...this power you have will serve you WELL Dear Lady.

Here's to one day having the stress free life that you DESERVE (((HUGS))).

HellFire...this just all sucks. I'm so sorry your having to go through all this mess. Prayers for peace!