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Scoobydoo posted 8/23/2019 14:13 PM

Iím ok, Iím back home, locks have been changed, I now have cameras everywhere (some still being fitted) I have a panic button linked straight to the police station,

Boxer has been arrested for burglary, theft, assault, threats to kill, drunk & disorderly conduct & carrying an offensive weapon, he wonít be in court till Tuesday but he DEFINITELY wonít be out before that.

They put a plan of action in place so we didnít have to run. It was easier to do this than for all of us to run.

I just want to say a massive thank you to everyone here for all your support,
I could feel your strength from miles away.

His account is banned so I can breath here safely xx


Chaos posted 8/23/2019 14:16 PM

Oh Scooby. Big sigh of relief. This is a good update.

You are one beautiful bad ass in the best possible way. You are stronger than you know.

FWIW - this update is the reason I'm smiling today.

SisterMilkshake posted 8/23/2019 14:18 PM

Thank you so much for the Update, Scooby. So happy to hear that you have some great safety measures in place. I hope he can cool off, get help and leave you alone. ((((Scooby))))) We are having a Scooby toast tonight, btw.

nekonamida posted 8/23/2019 14:23 PM

Great! Thank you for updating us. I am so glad that everyone came together and protected you.

cocoplus5nuts posted 8/23/2019 14:24 PM

I'm so glad you are safe, and that he has been arrested! You are amazing!

emergent8 posted 8/23/2019 14:29 PM

Good to hear from you Scooby. I am impressed with your strength. Please continue to stay safe.

foreverlabeled posted 8/23/2019 14:32 PM

Scooby I was so frightened for you! I'm relieved for you with this update. That was the best plan EVER put into action for the safety of you and yours. I'm afraid though you have a long way to go with him and I hope you keep the strength you've shown today.

But I urge you not to get too comfortable here and to keep your doings guarded. He knows you post here and he can read without an account.

Stay safe and godspeed.

Tallgirl posted 8/23/2019 14:32 PM

Ohh what great news!

So glad you and kids and grandkids are safe. I am so sorry that this went crazy sideways so fast.

One day at a time. I hope he will use this time to cool off and see reason. Diligence for safety is important.

You and your kids are smart and so strong !

Big hugs!

deena04 posted 8/23/2019 14:36 PM

Oh Scooby! He sounds completely off his rocker. You deserve so much better. Stay safe!!

Lionne posted 8/23/2019 14:39 PM

Just adding my name to the numbers of people who have your back. Please check in now and again so we know you continue to be safe.

I'm holding you in the LIGHT

Swbee posted 8/23/2019 14:39 PM

I don't post much but wanted to say I'm sending all positive thoughts to a you, you brave and strong woman!

fareast posted 8/23/2019 14:40 PM

Scooby that is wonderful news. You are stronger than you know. Iím glad you were protected. Please be safe always. Strength to you moving forward. Sending you positive mojo.

[This message edited by fareast at 2:41 PM, August 23rd (Friday)]

FLYAKITE posted 8/23/2019 14:44 PM

Oh thank goodness. I never post but have kept up with your journey and my whole day Iíve dedicated to sending our positive thoughts to you and your children. I can now go home to my own kids and breathe a bit more easily. You are an amazing strong incredible woman and you are so loved...with good reason!! Stay safe and vigilant and thanks so much for this update.

Dragonfly123 posted 8/23/2019 14:46 PM

Great news Scooby! So happy to hear that you and your family are safe and sound.

Iím sure youíre in a state of shock after the events of the last day or so, so please look after yourself.

DevastatedDee posted 8/23/2019 15:16 PM

I am so happy to read this from you! You are so awesome! Whew! This is a relief for sure.

I'm sure the shock of this is still hitting you.

gmc94 posted 8/23/2019 15:26 PM

Relieved to read this. Itís one of todayís moments of joy for me

I urge you not to get too comfortable here and to keep your doings guarded. He knows you post here and he can read without an account.

ChamomileTea posted 8/23/2019 15:30 PM

So glad you're okay. I do hope for your whole family's sake that Boxer utilizes this time to turn his life around. Some people need to hit rock bottom before they're willing to do a gut-check and rethink their philosophy.

tushnurse posted 8/23/2019 15:34 PM

(((Scooby))))

So glad things are falling into place. Glad he is not a threat for a while.
Please Please Please be prepared and ready for any possible shit when he gets out. Cameras and motion detectors are a great start. Make sure you have a way to protect yourself in your home. It would be wise to have a go bag. Cash papers clothes toiletries etc. Keep your car full of gas (petrol as they say across the pond)
Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

Brennan87 posted 8/23/2019 15:37 PM

Glad to hear you all are safe. I know this journey is not and cannot be easy for you, keep doing you! You've got this and your SI family has your back.

Scoobydoo posted 8/23/2019 15:45 PM

Thank you everyone,

Im ready to go if I need to, I donít want to say to much on here as itís a very valid point of who can see even without an account.
I know I have at least till Tuesday as itís bank holiday weekend here, no courts till Tuesday, even then the police donít think it will be dealt with in Magistrates as they are pushing for it to go to Crown court because of the seriousness of his actions.

Yes weíre still in complete shock & disbelief, none of us seen this coming

Itís my kids though..I think my heart actually cracked for them today 😢
I keep reading & rereading his thread, I just donít understand it!!!

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