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BraveSirRobin posted 8/23/2019 15:48 PM

Echoing everything -- happiness and relief at the update, admiration for your strength, and caution for the future. All of SI is behind you.

20yrsagoBS posted 8/23/2019 15:52 PM

Great news Scooby!!!!

Whew!!

HellFire posted 8/23/2019 16:08 PM

I'm so glad you see safe.

If,and when, he is released, all of you will need to make sure you go to great lengths to protect yourselves. For men like your husband, a RO is simply a piece of paper.

I dont say this to scare you. But, as I read his posts, he reminded me of my father. It was eerie. He was all about control. He was extremely abusive. An abused woman is in extreme danger when they leave their abuser. My father killed my stepmother, and my sister. She was leaving him.

Please consider arming yourself. It's terrifying, but you must do everything you can to protect yourself. And the kids.

Sending you love and hugs.

OrdinaryDude posted 8/23/2019 16:12 PM

Very happy for the good news, just keep your guard up.

SisterMilkshake posted 8/23/2019 16:13 PM

She can only get a rifle or shotgun in the UK, Hellfire. With licensing and I don't know how long that takes.

HellFire posted 8/23/2019 16:37 PM

Ah. I somehow missed she is in the UK.

I don't know what you are allowed to carry for self defense in the UK. Scooby. Whatever it is,please consider doing so.

landclark posted 8/23/2019 16:48 PM

I donít know you, but sending you lots of hugs. Good for you for taking charge of your life and protecting your family. Youíre one badass woman!

Anniek posted 8/23/2019 16:49 PM

Sending you prayers and hugs! Stay safe!

Catwoman posted 8/23/2019 17:05 PM

Very happy to see you safe.

This is hard on the kids--no doubt. They are having to challenge everything they ever thought about their dad, and even as adults, it's tough.

Hopefully his time in a "gated community" as we call it, will give them the space they need to process and heal.

I hope you and the gang are continuing your IC. It will be very helpful in providing you with tools as you navigate all of this.

Cat

WhoTheBleep posted 8/23/2019 17:21 PM

I just caught up with this entire situation. Scooby, I'm so so glad you are safe.

I cut the rest of my response. Sending a PM.

minusone posted 8/23/2019 17:30 PM

Stay safe...Scooby....and please stop reading his post.

You have taken measures for your safety and the safety of your family. You know who he is....so please stay away from his post.

Keep strong!

Cooley2here posted 8/23/2019 17:31 PM

Thank goodness!!!!

foreverlabeled posted 8/23/2019 18:18 PM

Itís my kids though..I think my heart actually cracked for them today 😢
Yes of course (((big hugs Scooby))) and it's that same love that moved you through to get shit done today. The shock isn't going away anytime soon but as long as a mama is in.. well, mama mode your strength will continue on. For your kiddos and for yourself. Hold on to it. You're an incredible woman, I see nothing but power in you.

Fucking hell you don't deserve this... ((more hugs))

adriverswife posted 8/23/2019 18:21 PM

So glad you're safe. I read that thread and alarms went off. :/ Stay safe and strong.

Unhinged posted 8/23/2019 19:53 PM

PRINT HIS THREAD AND KEEP IT SAFE

Send copies to trusted friends or family.

EllieKMAS posted 8/23/2019 19:59 PM

So happy to hear it Scooby!!

Stay safe... and I'm prayin for you and your kids. I can't imagine how hard this is.

You are a badass!!

EllieKMAS posted 8/23/2019 19:59 PM

So happy to hear it Scooby!!

Stay safe... and I'm prayin for you and your kids. I can't imagine how hard this is.

You are a badass!!

Shockedmom posted 8/23/2019 20:41 PM

Just saw this and nearly wept with relief. He is unable to harm you, your children or himself. Having him arrested was the best choice for all of you.

Hold your kids close. Let them talk it out and maybe have a counselor start a session for all of you together. Time, counseling for all and a solid legal system will help your healing.

Be well Scooby and family.

BearlyBreathing posted 8/23/2019 21:27 PM

Stay safe and keep alert. Sending all the positive I can. You are one amazing lady!!

SoulCrushed16 posted 8/23/2019 23:47 PM

Thank God Scooby!

Iíve been looking out for updates. Please know that you and your children are in my prayers. Please please be careful
and take care of yourself.

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