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To my knowledge:

OW1: in her apartments (the one she had in FL in 2013, and the one she had Chicago in 2014); presumably in her bed but perhaps there was a make-out session somewhere between the front door and the bedroom?

OW2: A hotel in New York, and her bed @ her apartment about three hours away; I think there may have been some make-out time on her couch that weekend, too - not sure about any other locations...now I will have to ask. This one came to our area twice in late 2014 and wanted him to visit (i.e., spend the night) with her in the hotel where she was staying, but he told me he couldn't because it was too close to home. Guess he was only comfortable having sex with them in states where we were not current residents.

And although they were never physically in our home, he once waxed poetic about how good of a friend OW1 was, shortly after we'd had sex and I was curled up next to him. And also, a few weeks before DDay, he leaned over one evening while we were both in bed, and asked me if I minded if he flew up to help his good friend OW1 move. He just wasn't specific about the movement he really meant...

[This message edited by BlueIris at 8:37 PM, June 9th (Thursday)]

Eeek, this topic is burning up.

I was right; this topic is too TMI for polite people to ask.

In his office/"man-cave", while watching feminist porn together. With the baby monitor emitting static and my baby girl sleeping in the background. While my baby girl was napping upstairs.

In the butt, I imagine.

In the butt, I imagine.

Flag! Flag!

TMI!

Only in OMs apartment. I don't know if I could live in this house had it happened here.

She did tell me they made out in our car though. I am half tempted to get rid of it, but since it is almost brand new, I'd be setting 5 grand on fire. So I guess it bothers me less than $5k.

[This message edited by Mark6 at 9:44 PM, June 8th (Wednesday)]

This is hilarious. The 9 times they had sex in the same hotel - notorious for their hourly rentals of theme rooms at various prices. He wouldn't splurge for the higher priced one. The last night they met yo she had her period so she jerked him off in the alley of her her mothers housing project apartment building where she was living at the time. That night became my dday.

At her house, with her H in the living room (he knew and was apparently cool with this, how nice that everyone except me was well-informed) and her gaggle of children ensconced somewhere out of sight.

Twice in the barracks he was staying in at the time, once in her car, where her children usually sit (super classy), and 9 - 10 times at two different hotels. Amazing how much he could fit in to a two week period with a trashy whore .

Oh my goodness....for 3 years he swore they were "just friends". When he finally told me the truth, he admitted he had sex with her in OUR rv. So her naked butt was rubbing all over my bed. Her head was on MY pillow. She gave him bj's in my home away from home. He also spent nights at her place. I try not to run the mind movies about this stuff....because...it can really, really make me furious. I did not burn up the RV, but I did replace the bed and all the bedding. Sometimes I can't believe how much I trusted him. Duh!!!

It would be easier for me to list where they did NOT have sex!

In his truck, at any location they found that was remotely private.

They would leave their dirty kleenex that they used to 'clean up' with in the cup holders.

Always at the APs houses. He never brought them to our home. I would imagine the vehicle he drove at the time on occasion... oooooh like high school...only wayyyyyy lamer.

From what I can put together

OW1 our new apartment he was setting up as we were overseas and coming later (don't believe getting our new bed tested with some skank was on the list of things he was supposed to do).

Other OWs now seem to be hotels. Pretty stupid as here you could get arrested checking into a hotel with someone who is not your wife.

Plus many others I can't find out now.

Honestly - this is why I never asked. This is what I know:

Her house and WH's brothers house (where WH was living at the time)

The only other thing I know was that she's never been to my house.

I didn't ask about the car - because I didn't want to know. But I assume.

Hotels we paid for from our joint account 150 for a long lunch break. He's so stupid.

Her house, he would work early so he could take 4 hours off at the end of the week. Dumb whores.

In a hotel room with two of the OM's buddies supposedly passed out in the bed next to them. I'm sure the buddies were told to at least pretend to be passed out and high fives were exchanged the next morning when she left the room.

My WW gave him a blow job in my house, then they screwed in her car after a secret little lunch then twice at his medical practice! he is beyond wealthy and he wouldn't even spring for a hotel room, and she screwd him like a cheap street hooker.

I wish hadn't insisted on the details now!

My super classy husband and his whore had sex the first few times in the restroom of the Italian bistro in the Philadelphia train station, on their lunch hour. Isn't that just the most romantic place to consummate your relationship, him sitting on the toilet and her riding him? Then, they progressed to the usual cars at parks, and then cheap hotels.

They parked at public parks when no one was around -apparently. Houses backed on to the parks and kids could show up for play anytime but hey, as long as they got some.

Once in a hotel when she got a room for her Chriatmas party. Lucky him finally got to get her completely naked and stretched out instead of cramped in a tiny car-always hers apparently.

[This message edited by deephurt at 9:14 AM, June 17th (Friday)]