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worm1022 ( member #15052) posted at 4:20 AM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
I WANT TO PLAY TOO!
1) "You were SNOOPING!"
Trans: SHIT YOU CAUGHT ME!
2) (when I asked if he had feelings for someone else)"I COULD NEVER do THAT!"
Trans: I'm ALREADY DOING that!(or her).
3) "She's fun, happy, and accessible."
Trans: She's someone else's wife and mother and therefore someone else's problem
4)(me asking do you really think she's beautiful?) "Yes"
Trans: You are a stay at home mom and you are frumpy - I see her at work ALL DAY and she's dressed up with make up on!
5) "I've been working on this marriage for years!"
Trans: I have been having an EA with her for years and printing and saving the emails like a serial killer saves body parts.
6) "We (me and him) were not a good fit"
Trans: I can't BELIEVE you expected me to be an adult!
or - I'm a liar and you are not
or - you have morals and ethics and I do not
or - insert your own
7) "It was a fantasy at first, I thought if I kept it separate, I could control it"
trans: I thought if you never found out - fuck you.
And now - I shall fuck her!
8)"You keep searching for things that are only going to hurt you"
Trans: I'm trying to avoid you knowing EXACTLY how much of a scum sucking pig I am!
9)"You are broken, miserable, and damaged."
Trans: I am broken, miserable, and damaged and I'm too fucking lazy and immature to deal with any of that.
Aw, screw it - I could go on for days.... it's just too many and he's still doing it. He's moved out and whines about his circumstances, "How do you expect me to live? Am I supposed to go without a TV?"
Trans: picture a 2 year old having a temper tantrum!
Me-BS: 38
DB(douche bag) - WH - 34
Kids: 2 wonderful boys - 3 and 5
D-day - 3/26/07
OW - married w/2 teeny kids.
Trying like hell to divorce.
"Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned / Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned."
cookie24 ( member #15124) posted at 4:56 AM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
"If you keep going on websites like SI, you're going to keep this thing alive".
Trans: I don't give a damn if it's therapeutic to you, quit bugging me already and get over it!
"The sex with her wasn't even good. She'd always get drunk, pass out, and then wake up apologizing".
Trans: I like low-class, sloppy, trailer-trash sex. That's why I flew to Virginia one last time to screw her a week after D-day. 
Me: BS (49), Him: WS (50)
D-Day 12/11/06 & 12/27/06
Another One 8/13/11
Divorcing
cjonesjag ( member #10617) posted at 5:12 AM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
Shortly after DDAY#2 (found lovely little *adorable* emails from him to her)...
"If you KEEP looking for something, you're going to find it eventually! You're going to find something bad!!"
Trans: I am never going to stop being an asswipe. I am never going to be honest with you. I am never going to stop betraying you, and you will eventually catch me again. You should run..
[This message edited by cjonesjag at 11:14 PM, July 4th (Wednesday)]
Me (BS):50
Him(WTFH):51 Married: 05/26/2002
DD#1: 09/2005 (EA) DD#2: 09/2006
Mini-DDays: Many. Mostly online
DIVORCED 10/20/10
It's not what you've got, it's what you give.
It ain't the life you choose, it's the life you live
downfall ( member #7430) posted at 5:36 AM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
Didn't review the entire thread so if this is a repeat my apologizes.
"There is nothing more to tell."
translated: It doesn't seem like you know about x,y,and z. I'm not telling anymore than I need to. Placing bets on you not finding out.
[This message edited by downfall at 11:36 PM, July 4th (Wednesday)]
Dday June 16 2005: Separated 2/06 Divorced 3/09
Ah, but she can't take you any way
You don't already know how to go ~ Eagles
cookie24 ( member #15124) posted at 7:50 AM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
"I don't know why I replied, I love you too, 2 weeks into the relationship".
Trans: I had to keep getting pussy so I had to say what I thought she wanted to hear
Me: BS (49), Him: WS (50)
D-Day 12/11/06 & 12/27/06
Another One 8/13/11
Divorcing
cookie24 ( member #15124) posted at 8:09 AM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
After I found out NC was broken...
"I'm glad that you found out. Now everything is out in the open and I can tell her that it's over and to leave us alone".
Trans: I didn't have the balls to break it off with this trailer-trash bitch, but I know you'll get in her ass and make her leave us alone. You go baby...get her!! 
Me: BS (49), Him: WS (50)
D-Day 12/11/06 & 12/27/06
Another One 8/13/11
Divorcing
amyalone ( member #14823) posted at 11:14 AM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
Your priorities in life were our daughter, your mother, your patients, then me.
Trans: See, you didn't care about me, so of course I had to go to her. TRANSFER GUILT!
Defiance ( member #8265) posted at 1:47 PM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
This is like traveling down (bad) memory road. Let me add a few gems:
"I can't believe you spent 5 grand on a PI!"
Translation: Holy shit, you weren't fucking around, were you?
BTW, best 5 grand I ever spent.
"I can't believe you listened to my private phone calls!"
Translation: OMFG, he heard EVERYTHING!!
"I really love you, can't we have another chance?"
Translation: She thought she could drag me through the depths of hell, have everything she wanted, and still come running back.
My answer: No, not if you were the last women on the planet and the survival of the human race depended on it. (I actually said this).
Best decision of my life
-Defiance
Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.
worm1022 ( member #15052) posted at 2:00 PM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
Wait - I have one that that OW sent to me after I sent her an email addressing her (she's also married so she's a WS so it counts I think)
"I'm sorry. It's true I've had a crush on DB for a long time, but I never planned for this to happen."
Trans: It's true I've been chasing down your husband since I first met him and I've worked really hard at it - I'm not sorry - I am the winner!
My thought: You won, alright - congratufuckinglations on your PRIZE!
Me-BS: 38
DB(douche bag) - WH - 34
Kids: 2 wonderful boys - 3 and 5
D-day - 3/26/07
OW - married w/2 teeny kids.
Trying like hell to divorce.
"Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned / Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned."
trying to smile ( member #9683) posted at 2:43 PM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
"It just happened".
"Her H knows about our friendship and HE doesn't have a problem with it".
"Can't I show a friend a little support".
"ILYBINILWY".
"I never meant to hurt you".
tts 
Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
"so when he finally showed his true colours they proved to be a startling shade of turd".
BeyondAllBelief ( new member #10957) posted at 2:58 PM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
ghostofmyself ( member #11904) posted at 3:39 PM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
oh boy... I remember this thread.
It can get better, folks.
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 5:40 PM on Thursday, July 5th, 2007
"He is my friend and don't expect me to give that up."
Trans. - "My head is so far up my ass I can't see that I am actually married."
"It was only an innocent phone call"
Trans. - "We didn't talk about sex that time, only how I would move out of the house to be with him more often"
"We (FWW & OM) didn't talk about our marriages"
Trans. - "We talked about how our marriages sucked and how it was our spouses fault"
"I just ended the affair"
Trans. - "Maybe this was a bad idea but let's run with it for awhile"
"I just gave up ..."
Trans. - "... on reality"
"I had given up"
Trans. - "I tried being abusive but you survived so I decided to really ruin your life"
TR
[This message edited by TrulyReconciled at 11:41 AM, July 5th (Thursday)]
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
Beautifulsmile ( new member #13473) posted at 1:38 AM on Friday, July 6th, 2007
WS to BS late at night: Honey do we have marriage problems?
BS: No dear!
Trans: How much information do you (BS) know about the affair? You (BS) have not got a clue that WS is having an affair while working abroad!
BS to WS: You said that MOW was over weight, frumpy and the sex was bad the first time, then why were you seeing MOW again? Why did you book the hotel in your and MOW's name for one night?
WS: I was getting to the hotel 9:30 P.M., MOW was getting to the hotel early and needed the room to read her book! We were going to meet for dinner.
Trans: MOW (aka Slut) was going to give BJ and swallow cum.
WS: It was not an affair! Come on... it was a small fling?
Trans: It is called damage control. How the hell did you find out?
WS: She (MOW) was easy to talk to.
Trans: YES, she was EASY all right!
Jade2561 ( new member #13970) posted at 2:13 AM on Friday, July 6th, 2007
We have so much in common.
Trans: We both like talking about pleasuring my dick
We were never happy
Trans: I have systematically convinced myself we were never happy so I can be quilt free
You've changed.
Trans: You gave birth to two of my children and can't drop everyhting to give me BJs anymore. Poor me!
Me (BS): 23
Him (Ws): 24
Married 5 yrs
DD #1: 01/06/2006
DD #2: 01/06/2007 (same OW)
Kids age 1 and 3
Working on R
LeftAndConfused ( member #14612) posted at 3:24 AM on Friday, July 6th, 2007
"But she's the only one who knows how I FEEL!"
Trans: She's a heartless, two-faced, cheating bastard too!
"I just want to be free and walk around."
Trans #1: I just want to be free and fuck around.
Trans #2: I am soul-less and vacant and don't want to have any adult responsibilities.
"You've told all your friends that I'm an asshole."
Trans: I am an asshole but was hoping only YOU would know.
God this is fun!!!
Me: BS (29)
Him: WH (36)
Married: 8 years, Together 10 years
DDay: 3/26/07 (MOW former co-worker)
Status: Separated but reconciling
weepy ( member #8790) posted at 8:50 PM on Friday, July 6th, 2007
"I didn't have an affair".
trans: I had many
trans: There were no flowers or dates or cards, just mind blowing sex as often as we could manage for 7 years.
trans: The whores don't count, that was just sex.
Dday: 9/12/05
M: 29 yrs( me anyway )
BS(me): 55 And I'm ok with that
FWS: 57- Multiple PAs, LTA 7? yrs.
Try not. Do or do not, there is no try. -- Yoda
Sandygirl ( member #10943) posted at 9:34 PM on Friday, July 6th, 2007
When confronted about him video taping the escort "I swear I never stuck my dick into anyone"
Translation: I'd like to stick my dick into anyone but you.
"Would you quit placing me under a microscope"
Translation: I just want to cheat on you and get away with it.
When asked why he video taped this escort girl..."because your not 20 years old anymore"
In the meantime I'm working full time 12 hour shifts and taking care of the house and kids.
Translation: I'm just a selfish fuck that only cares about my own needs...the heck with everyone elses. I just want to satisfy my own needs.
WS:42 H
BS:37 Me
My boys:5,4
D-day: My sons birthday 4/06 hired a girl to video tape, found tons of chat messages with different girls, know of one girl that he was in contact with
Dday #2 5/31/07 2nd webcam found
? 7/1/07
7/25/07 3rd webcam
ketch37 ( member #14986) posted at 6:24 AM on Thursday, July 19th, 2007
I wanna play.....I wanna play
We have nothing to talk about anymore
Trans: I have a dick in my mouth and cant speak without slobbering
I haven't love you in years
Trans: Hell, since I have no better excuse to give you I thought I would pass this one by you
I am the mother and I am taking our daughter
Trans: I want to not only take your dignity, I want to clean you out too
She doesn't have a say on where she lives, she is only 11 y.o.
Trans: If she talks, she will ruin my chance at the gravy train
You'll never change
Trans: I WILL NEVER CHANGE
I need my space
Trans: I like being a whore
I was married too young
Trans: I like having no responsibilities for my mistakes you I will blame you
SERVIN HER ARSE TOMORROW NIGHT!!!!!!!!
[This message edited by ketch37 at 12:25 AM, July 19th (Thursday)]
"When we remember we are all mad, the mysteries disappear and life stands explained." Mark Twain
confused2007 ( member #15378) posted at 6:45 AM on Thursday, July 19th, 2007
This one may be here
I was ending it.
Translation: You just caught me.
I never had sex with OW.
(Translation: I covered my tracks so you will never know).
Me: BS 47years old, Him: WS 45 years old, Married Since 2004-15 yearsDDay #1: May 20, 2007 EA DDay #2: July 2016 Long distance EA 1 month DDay #3: November 16, 2019 TTDecember 17th Full disclosure 6 month PA Against all reaso
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