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You're such a fucking asshole.

I just wanted to say that. I listened to our daughter cry over you and your fucking stupid choices. I listened to her talk about how the whore will never be anything but the whore to her, no matter how much you want everyone to pretend she's some woman you're dating.

I listened to her cry about family holiday traditions that no longer exist because our family no longer exists.

You have no idea how it feels to feel like you don't belong anywhere anymore.

You're just a fucking selfish prick.

I hate everything about you today except that you gave me these children that I love more than life itself.

Fucking bastard. Get your head out of the whore's vagina and wake up and see what you're doing to your relationships with your kids before it's too late.

Asshole.

You sanctimonious prick!

What's wrong? You ask me..... what do you think is wrong?

Have a bit of a think..... No?

You still don't get it.

You surly bag of shit.

Fuck you and the horse you rode in on STBXWH! I fucking hate your guts!

Fuck you and the horse you rode in on STBXWH! I fucking hate your guts!

Me fucking too CBS!

Solidarity-S.I.-sister.

XXX

I feel so sad for you. Our son, who is in college and away from home, chose to reach out and ask about your Thanksgiving plans only to find out that grandma will be out of town and you are going to OW's family. Did you assume he would be spending the holiday with me? Don't get me wrong, I'm thrilled to have him and my family will all be together without the hole I was anticipating. But wow, think of your son EVER? His college is two hours away and you have a car and aren't working. Have you made a trip in to see him? No. You've never even been to the campus to see his environment. Your mother chose to go to another state, her favorite part of having all of us at her house for a holiday is shattered. If she was still speaking to me I'd invite her to my family and she would be loved and welcomed. But you have isolated her from us and I think she's frankly embarrassed. I miss her.

You're a miserable fucking twat, descended from a long line of miserable fucking twats. It stops at this generation. I'm making sure MY kids are real human beings.

If I could punch you in your fucking face I would. You are such a gutless coward. How dare you accuse me of "emotionally and financially" abusing you. You are not a man. You are are a whining baby in a wet diaper. You have sponged off me since the day we married. You deserve to go live on a stripper's couch. Go, be with them. You can be their king. Have fun. Hope you get syphilis.

OMG - You came in from another night out with OW and went to bed in the guest room. I can hear you snoring from here as loudly as if it were next to me. I can't wait for you to leave and not come back again. When I heard there was a car accident down the block earlier I caught myself so hoping it was you and then angry at myself for thinking like that. You bring nothing but negativity into my life and I want it gone, I want YOU gone so I can really start to pick up my life.

I'm glad you're taking DD away for Thanksgiving since I have to work the whole weekend, but could you be less of a shit and email so I know when she will be gone? I can't believe you are like this - I really can't. At least it shows me what I'm NOT missing. Go away, jackass - go far away, send money but don't come back.

Splitting up has nothing to do with DS.

The choice to leave was yours and I accept it.

I need to stay in the house until DS has finished school and I am happy to make arrangements for that.

I have no need to hear or understand your point of view on anything other than financial and practical arrangements.

It's our 14th wedding anniversary today. This time 14 years ago we made vows to each other and I felt so safe and so happy being with you.

I haven't heard from you all day. Not a peep. I don't know why this is a surprise to me, but it is. It's so painful that you are away with our daughter visiting your family while I am here alone.

I m so mad at you.

Apparently today means nothing to you. Our marriage means nothing to you. I mean nothing to you.

I can't understand it. I loved you so much. Why wasn't it good enough? What did I do wrong? Am I impossible to love?

I don't understand why I want to hear from you so badly today. Why your silence hurts so much. I want to text you but I don't think I should. The pain is brutal. Do you care what you've left behind you? Or are you just relieved to be gone?

I wish you would stop being a selfish dick for just two fucking seconds.

Stop whining because you aren't getting your way and work with your kids to set up a time to celebrate Christmas you fucking prick.

And you wonder why I want nothing to do with you.

ITS BECAUSE YOU ARE A RAGING NPD DICK!!!

And btw? The kids are all really happy for me that I'm dating G5. Know why? Because I wasn't fucking him when I was still married to you. I fucking dare you to ask me someday why they don't have a problem with him. Because that's what I'm going to say.

Fucking jerk.

Leave me alone. Grow up. Stop hurting my kids so that I can even possibly conceive of not hating you.

FUCK YOU...when I see your face the rage comes across me.

The way you have never truly showed remorse just makes me so freaking sad.

When I drop off the kids to you (the freaking mother of my children) and your selfish self, the thought of "I HATE YOU" comes to my mind. I hate I have to deliver my kids to. I hate they can not grow up in a home with two parents that RESPECT EACH OTHER!

RESPECT I will never have for you..NEVER!

You pretended you wanted to be friends! HA Who the fuck wants to be friends with someone who does something as fucking low as an Affair!!!!!

You pretend I don't communicate about the children but maybe you should just face it it the communication issue is on your end. You fucking hide behind your selfish image. You pretend a few words is communicating. You pretend giving me a different cell number than you use daily is going to give good communication. You pretend you are happy! You pretend you are the better person.

FUCK YOU AND STOP PRETENDING!

I hate that I still love you! I hate it....

Text after text saying how much you still love me, how sorry you are for the hurt you have caused, gutted etc. And you know what? You almost had me in the bag.

Then DD tells me that your Sunday visit to your mum's, with OW in tow, turned into a bitch-fest.

Apparently you couldn't stop slagging me off and the three witches of Eastwick (MIL, SIL, OW) playing violin to your viola. WTF?

Will you make up your fucking mind? Do you love me or do you hate me?

No, I don't love you.

No, I don't trust you and never will.

No, I don't want to support you and your fucking LIFE-LONG bipolar disorder.

No, I will NEVER forget what a fucking horrible person you are.

No, you don't fool me anymore.

No, I won't EVER forgive you.

No, I don't have any respect for you.

No, I don't care that we won't have much money for our old age.

YES, I really do want a divorce you fuckwit.

Omg there must be something in the air mine is telling me it is hard on him, us not talking or anything omg omg 😲 I feel like he is suffocating me! Leave me alone dude like ALL ALONE!

Bumping for folks who are struggling with NC.

You can do this! Whatever it is you want to say to them, say it here instead.

You arse.

Make yourself out to be the victim to our kids.

"Mum is mean to me."

FFS - I put up with your meanness for 30 fucking years.

Your kids have put up with your mood swings and temper tantrums all their lives.

No, I'm not going to weaken.

Yes - if you won't get out of the house you can bloody well sleep in the box room.

I hope you get an excruciatingly bad back.

Yes I'm SAD, anxious, tired, distraught, worried.

No - I'm not going to change my mind.

I wish you'd just DROP-DOWN-DEAD.

If you keep drinking and driving you arse, you are going to get caught.

.... and if you drink and drive with our kids in the car, I'll f*cking well report you myself.

I have to go back for my STD tests. You know the tests you told me came back clean when you had them then told me if I had something I must have caught it before we were together.... Amazing since I had never been with anyone before you!

Did you know that STD's can be passed on to a baby in the womb? Did you know it can get passed through breast milk? Not only did you risk my health you risked both of our children with your affairs.

I can't believe you are crying poor. You earn 4 times more than me and I somehow manage to meet all our children's needs... But you can't afford to help. congrats father of the year!

You were my HUSBAND. I was your WIFE. That means something. How could you throw it away so fast? I don't get it. We were a team. Partners. Best friends. Now strangers. Enemies?. I loved you. Cherished you. You cheated.. now my life is over. Fuck you.