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Mickie500 (original poster member #74292) posted at 12:59 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
I need a break from all the heavy.
I’m curious what Zodiac signs you and your spouse and the OP is. My mother had 2 best friends when I was growing up and they both were single women who dated married men both of them are Virgos. My fWH’s affair partner is also a Virgo.
Me- BS Gemini
FWH - Aquarius
AP- Virgo
It’s supposed to be lighthearted. 😌
DigitalSpyder ( member #61995) posted at 2:02 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
I'll play along. Had to look these though.
Western
Me - Libra
XWW - Leo
AP - Sagittarius
Eastern
Me- Snake
XWW- Sheep
AP- OX
Post Tenebras Spero Lucem
The longer we dwell on our misfortunes, the greater their power to harm us. Voltaire
Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 3:11 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
Me - Virgo... furthest thing from a cheater you can imagine.
Spouse - Taurus.
OW - Don't know don't care.
My point is don't be suspicious of all Virgo's just because it's the sign that has impacted you.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
landclark ( member #70659) posted at 3:32 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
My WH and I are both Virgos. He’s a serial cheater, I am not. For the AP, which one? Seriously though, I honestly don’t know, nor do I care.
Me: BW Him: WH (GuiltAndShame) Dday 05/19/19 TT through AugustOne child together, 3 stepchildrenTogether 13.5 years, married 12.5
First EA 4 months into marriage. Last ended 05/19/19. *ETA, contd an ea after dday for 2 yrs.
Luna10 ( member #60888) posted at 3:38 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
I don’t believe in these things but only to say the OW in our case was Cancer. Sounds about right, that’s how she’s referred to in this house anyway.
Dday - 27th September 2017
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:16 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
I was born within hours of the cancer-leo cusp.
W is a capricorn.
We are both wood monkeys, in the Chinese system. That's supposed to be a good match. At least it would be if she were some multiple of 12 years younger than me.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 4:18 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
Me - Libra
WH - Gemini
LTAP - don't feel like looking it up - but her BD is VD if anyone else wants to.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
hikingout ( member #59504) posted at 4:21 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
AP was a serial cheater and a VIRGO. But I believe that Tushnurse is right, don't get too hung up on that :-) I don't really believe in this stuff either.
Husband is a Leo, I am an Aquarius.
8 years of hard work - WS and BS - Reconciled
Jambomo ( member #74853) posted at 4:30 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
Me (BS) and EXWBF are both Leos. I also was born on the cusp of Cancer/Leo I believe (I don't look into this stuff much).
I don't know about his AP. I could work it out but I don't want to know tbh.
eta: I just looked up our Eastern signs. I am a Horse, which sounds cool and he is a RAT!!!!
I now love star signs.
[This message edited by Jambomo at 10:33 AM, October 23rd (Friday)]
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 4:38 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
I'm a sagittarius/dragon (hahaha)
wh is a pisces/ox. To bad theres no mule (as in stubborn as a mule. Guess ox works though lol).
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Underserving ( member #72259) posted at 4:50 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
Bah. This was slightly triggering lol The OW is obsessed with this kind of stuff, so was always talking about her cancer (aka MY WH)
Anyways WH is a cancer. Both Ow and I are Scorpios.
Looked up the eastern animal thing. I’m a dragon and he’s a rabbit. I had a quick image of a dragon breathing fire on a rabbit and then devouring it. It was a nice thought
BW (32)Found out 3 years post end of AD-day 12-9-19In R
Infidelity brings out the cuss in me. I’m not as foul mouthed in real life. ;)
Phantasmagoria ( member #49567) posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
Me = Leo / Snake
Ex-WW = Scorpio / Goat
OM = Pussy / Chicken (Based on how he acted when confronted!)
Mickie500 (original poster member #74292) posted at 6:49 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
Lol -
I guess I was hoping to see that more Virgos were the AP’s to prove my theory. Lol
RichT ( new member #71459) posted at 8:38 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
I don't know anything about zodiac but I play along.
Me - Acuarius
WW - Taurus
What can you say about that?
gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 8:49 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
Me: scorpio (the loyal to a fault kind :) )
WH: Aquarius
LTA AP: aquarius
Other APs: don't know, don't care
ChaOs - 2/14 is also Aquarius (LTA AP's bday is right around that time too... lovely to think about their combo birthday/VD chats
[This message edited by gmc94 at 2:50 PM, October 23rd, 2020 (Friday)]
M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived
It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies
EmbraceTheChange ( member #43247) posted at 9:16 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
Me: Scorpio, baby!!!
Wh: capricorn
OM = Pussy / Chicken (Based on how he acted when confronted!)
Ha ha ha!!!!
I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination
Tanner ( Guide #72235) posted at 9:23 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
Me Aquarius
W Sagittarius
AP wasn’t born I think he was hatched.
Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 33 years
fooled13years ( member #49028) posted at 9:28 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
Mickie500
I’m curious what Zodiac signs you and your spouse and the OP is. My mother had 2 best friends when I was growing up and they both were single women who dated married men both of them are Virgos. My fWH’s affair partner is also a Virgo.
Are you sure? I thought after the first time you had sex you could no longer claim to be a Virgo.
Oops! Sorry I misread that
I removed myself from infidelity and am happy again.
LadyG ( member #74337) posted at 11:31 PM on Friday, October 23rd, 2020
WH = Aquarius
Me = Leo / Virgo cusp
Last AP? Went by the name of Angel or Evil Angel. AP was hatched.
September 26 1987 I married a monster. Slowly healing from Complex PTSD. I Need Peace. Fiat Lux. Buddha’s Love Saves Me 🙏🏼
EZ24get ( member #29752) posted at 3:23 AM on Saturday, October 24th, 2020
Me: Taurus/Gemini cusp,... Gemini side. Fire Dragon.
WH: Libra. Wood Rabbit.
ow: Aries. Fire Snake.
I love astrology and, through it, came to discover the Sabian Symbols... ( not the drumset kind of symbols ). These corrospond with each degree of the 360* chart. In looking up the degree of her Aries Sun, the Sabian Symbol reads as,...
** A Serpent Coiling Near A Man And A Woman **
Fits perfect!
Told my request was one so unlike being you. Then, was punished for asking, by watching you become all that I needed, for someone new.
...so,..he traded my heart, for a hard-on.
BW~ me 44
CH~ he 45
2 kiddos~ 22 & 24
A-bombed Oct2010
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