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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 2:36 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

(((((Phoenix)))))

Covering you in prayer.

AJ's MOM

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 2:57 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

(((Phoenix))). Lord of mercy - More prayers going up!!

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:58 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

(((((Phoenix))))) Sending everything I've got that he'll quickly be found safe. Hold on, honey. We've got you.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 3:03 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

I hope he's found safe soon.

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lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 3:04 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Oh Phoenix. This is to much. I hope he is home and safe soon.

((Phoenix))

Me: BS/48
Him: WS/46
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 23 years.
Reconciled.

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 Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 3:16 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Still nothing. Planning to jump on a plane as soon as I can tie up loose ends. His father will be going also. He did not report for duty, and he would NEVER do that!!!

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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TrustNoOne ( member #16591) posted at 3:27 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

(((((Phoenix1))))))

Hold on, hun. Hold on to hope. Hold on to faith.

Sending prayers your way.

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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:30 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

..

((((((((Phoenix and family)))))))))

..sending prayers of hope to you.

smy

trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 3:33 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

So sorry to hear this Phoenix. I'll keep positive thoughts coming your way.

Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 3:38 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

So sorry to hear this Phoenix. Hope he turns up son and nothing is wrong. Was he hiking with anyone else or did he go out by himself?

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 3:46 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

This is awful news. I'm so sorry.

{{{phoenix}}}

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 4:06 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Sending hope and positive thoughts.

((((Phoenix))))

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

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Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 4:06 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

I am sorry, please know you are in my prayers. hoping that you hear from him very soon

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 4:08 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Phoenix, I'm so sorry. I hope he is safe and sound, and found very soon. ((HUGS))

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 4:14 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Lord, please cover this family in prayer. Wrap your arms around her son, keep him safe until he is found. Continue to keep Giving Phoenix the strength and courage she has shown and hold her up until her son is in her arms. In your precious name. Amen

[This message edited by Pentup at 10:22 AM, April 14th (Monday)]

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 4:20 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Amen.

Beautiful prayer, Pentup.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 4:25 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

(((phoenix))) tons and tons of prayers

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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clba317 ( member #8803) posted at 4:29 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Prayers for you and your family that he will be found soon! Hugs

BS
DS9,DS5
M 11, D 8/1/05- not soon enough!

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abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 4:38 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

Gracious alive! I'm so sorry.

(((Phoneix1 and DS)))

Prayers for strength and comfort, and that your DS is found soon!

WHERE'S THE PUDDING?!

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 4:41 PM on Monday, April 14th, 2014

OMGosh Phoenix...

So much is happening to you and your family now. I pray that your DS is found safe and sound.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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