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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 10:08 PM on Friday, March 28th, 2014
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 3:49 PM on Sunday, March 30th, 2014
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 6:33 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
thisissogross ( member #30294) posted at 6:27 AM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014
i edit frequently because i have to
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:32 PM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 1:29 PM on Friday, April 11th, 2014
Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:28 AM on Saturday, April 12th, 2014
Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 8:25 PM on Sunday, April 13th, 2014
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 11:49 PM on Thursday, April 17th, 2014
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 8:41 PM on Friday, April 25th, 2014
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 11:00 PM on Friday, May 16th, 2014
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
BlackHorse ( member #43459) posted at 8:21 AM on Monday, May 19th, 2014
I use to help on a couple of general on-line support groups in the past until I stopped from burn-out and to focus on the "Love Of My Life". She was worried about how much of a toll it took on me physically and emotionally because I always have delved head first and completely into things I am passionate about.
It is difficult seeing some of my own past sentiments given to others presented in front of me at this time as I deal with my heart-ache.
Must be easier for me to give advice and common sense to others than it is for me to take it.
- BlackHorse.
Not together long enough - too many long separations due to her continuing medical issues.
Me - Canadian.
She - American.
Both of us in our fifties.
D-Day - 04/30/14 (while she was away seeking medical assistance in her homeland)
bluelightshine ( member #37539) posted at 7:59 AM on Wednesday, May 21st, 2014
BS(Me) 32
SAWH (Beaker) 35
Married 11 Years
Dday Oct 06 2012
Dday 2 February 19 2014
Confessed to getting blow jobs from
prostitutes in 2006 and while living with OW
PA/EA 1 year
In r
2 children under 10
Working on faith everyday.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:36 AM on Thursday, May 22nd, 2014
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 9:34 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
Bump. It's a holiday weekend and not as many here to help the newbies.
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 3:39 PM on Monday, May 26th, 2014
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 35 years/Together 36 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 7:30 AM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
Bump 
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 8:34 PM on Thursday, June 19th, 2014
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
brkn_heartd ( member #30396) posted at 2:51 AM on Monday, July 14th, 2014
Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10
mamajen00 ( member #43810) posted at 5:22 AM on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
The 180 is what gave me power and control back in this situation. It helped me to realize that I am strong and capable!
BS- me 37
WH- him 38
1 son - almost 5
Married 8 years
Together 13 years
DDay 4/19/14
9 months of intense EA
2 days of PA
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