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Cheatee (original poster member #59284) posted at 1:41 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Mine was spouse finding her Affair Partner in Alcoholics Anonymous. Two damaged souls on the same healing journey, while I was a Muggle who just couldn't understand.
Vomit...
sickofsurviving ( member #52308) posted at 1:52 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Mine is...Incest. Keep it in the family.
BS-me 54
WH 56
Married 2004
4 DDs 35,30,26,25
Sexting affair with his 1st cousin 2007-2008 maybe
D-Day 8-8-15
Married
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 1:57 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
cheatstroke ( member #67708) posted at 2:00 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
She had heard about his big penis and...just HAD to know.
AbandonedGuy ( member #66456) posted at 2:04 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Not from her mouth, but I assume "the older coworker who gets her" i.e. showers with gifts, unlike her unemployed "piece of shit" husband.
Edit: I'm going to throw "mid life crisis" into the mix, too.
[This message edited by AbandonedGuy at 8:17 AM, April 30th (Tuesday)]
EmancipatedFella, formerly AbandonedGuy
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 2:12 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
My wife is a controlling bitch and I deserve more.
Oh, and we're just friends. She doesn't have the right to okay my friends.
Oh, and strip clubs are LEGAL ADULT entertainment venues. I'm an adult, I'm not doing anything wrong,and besides, these strippers are my FRIENDS!
[This message edited by Lionne at 8:15 AM, April 30th (Tuesday)]
Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
Thissucks5678 ( member #54019) posted at 2:13 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
DDay: 6/2016
“Every test in our life makes us Bitter or Better. Every problem comes to Break Us or Make Us. The choice is ours whether to be Victim or Victor.” - unknown
Justsomeguy ( member #65583) posted at 2:25 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Drifter cowboy who liked to screw anything. Get this. She even asked him if he was a player. He said he used to be, but not any more LMAO. He cheated on he while she cheated on me...
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced
DomesticTourist ( member #67648) posted at 2:27 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
My wife found a “real connection” with my best friend.
Emotions are like children: you can’t put them in the trunk, but you can’t let them drive, either.
Hg65 ( member #49801) posted at 2:32 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Stereotypical sexy “ethnicity.” With all new “enhancements.” 20 years younger. CrossFit queen.
I half expected him to come home in a new Corvette just to complete his midlife crisis.
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 2:34 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Trade-show hook-up. How's that for class?
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
Vegas1985 ( new member #69842) posted at 2:37 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
She was the receptionist.
Morecomplete ( member #64363) posted at 2:39 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Had an affair during downward alcoholic spiral after I’d just had a baby...pathetic.
Me:35 H:35 on DDay Married 12/09 3 young children (under 6)5 mo PA with MOW (coworker) Dday 3/28/18
Attempting R
Marie2792 ( member #44958) posted at 2:42 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Mid life crisis...smoked a few joints with one of his friends too
Me: BS,48 (41 at dday)Him: WS, 56 (49 at dday)Married 27 years, together 30 Dday : 9/9/14 3 week PA
EmbraceTheChange ( member #43247) posted at 2:44 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
He found his true love working in the lab, at work. Best thing ever, like he told her. I was the evil incarnated: I was making bad jokes, shopping in the wrong shops, I had the audacity to ask him to put me on the email chain when we were buying the house (he turned me down, 
, I had to insist, like wtf). She was always happy to see him, I was not. Truuuuuue loooooove!
Told him that since she was his best thung, I shall be his worst. and I did. Totally screwed him with 3k child support (lol), full custody, deeds for the houses. and in June, I will leave the US for France, and I will never see this guy again.
I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination
cocoplus5nuts ( member #45796) posted at 3:02 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Me(BW): 1970
WH(caveman): 1970
Married June, 2000
DDay#1 June 8, 2014 EA
DDay#2 12/05/14 confessed to sex before polygraph
Status: just living my life
maise ( member #69516) posted at 3:04 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Mine was the spouse having an affair with a mutual acquaintance in our group of friends that came around often.
BW (SSM) D-Day: 6/9/2018 Status: Divorced
"Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
— Rumi
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 3:08 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
"Midlife Crisis".
WTF dude? Just buy a sports car or a motorcycle like a normal person. Dye your hair. Something relatively harmless.
Well actually, it was "they understood what it was like to be an addict trying to live a normal life".
Yeah, drug-addicted prostitutes TOTALLY understand normal and are so there for you and your existential crises.
Just tell me that you wanted to fuck 20-year-olds and you had to pay for the privilege because most 20-year-olds could do better.
[This message edited by DevastatedDee at 9:10 AM, April 30th (Tuesday)]
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
ibonnie ( member #62673) posted at 3:12 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
TWU WUV with a coworker. She was ten years older than him, still lived at home with her parents and her adult daughter, and was just so unlucky in love/life. He was her KISA, the only person that was really there for her because she was such a nice person and just wanted him to be happy. 
Screw his wife at home with two little kids and suffering with undiagnosed post partum anxiety asking for help though, 'cause there were no ego kibbles there. 
"I will survive, hey, hey!"
Adaira ( member #62905) posted at 3:38 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
I think mine was shades of Esther Perel “I just wanted to feel happy and alive again!” With dashes of midlife crisis and damsel in distress/KISA. Depended on which way the wind was blowing that day. Towards the end, it definitely shifted high gear into “cold bitch wife who drove me into the arms of another.”
Former BW. Happily divorced.
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