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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 6:06 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2019
Absolutely I will add him and you both to my prayers. I pray for a speedy diagnosis and successful treatment and strength for you both to make it through each day. Please keep updating when you have the time.
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Shockedmom ( member #44708) posted at 7:30 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2019
Sending hugs and prayers! Hoping for an expedited appointment to set your minds at ease.
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 7:53 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2019
Sending hugs and well wishes to smy
sinsof thefather ( member #29295) posted at 9:30 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2019
Sending mojo and good wishes to SMY
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 9:40 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2019
I just saw this.... Sending lots of good thoughts, and prayers to you both. (((SMY))).
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pureheartkit ( member #62345) posted at 10:09 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2019
Healing thoughts and prayers and a speedy recovery.
(((((((Somanyyears)))))))))))
Be surrounded by love
Thank you everyone for your wisdom and healing.
annb ( member #22386) posted at 12:32 AM on Thursday, June 13th, 2019
Prayers for a speedy recovery.
Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 12:39 AM on Thursday, June 13th, 2019
Looking Forward, I am so sorry you are dealing with this- it must be terrifying.
My cousin had a seizure In Ontario and lost her license. But I thought it was for six months.
Also be aware if you want to travel out of country, you may have trouble with health insurance. If your H had a seizure out of country it would be considered a pre existing condition and he would not be covered.
If it is a one off, I believe you are ok after a year with insurance outside of Canada.
Wishing you the best and a speedy recovery
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 5:50 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2019
Looking Forward.....SMY has been in my thoughts and prayers.....Please give us an update.
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 10:52 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2019
Update
SMY is getting better; he's lost weight, has lost his appetite, but he's eating!
He's lost his core body strength. He tries to do some yardwork and has to stop frequently.
He spent hours in restraint at the hospital and in the last few days has really felt the aches and pains, muscles very sore, etc., especially his back. I've suggested he ask for x-rays when he sees the doctor.
He's feeling "trapped" with his driver's licence officially suspended for medical reasons (got the letter in the mail today). He needs to be cleared by our family doctor; hopefully on the 27th, but reinstatement can take up to 30 business days. Meanwhile, I'm driving Miss Daisy.
Skan's death has really gotten to him and he is very aware of mortality; how random life can be, how it can be taken away in a flash. We just lost a lovely 87 year old parishioner so unexpectedly -- she baked the most marvelous pies and smy loved eating them from the centre first.
Thank you for your thoughts and prayers, SI community.
On a happier note, he spent the day watching our Toronto Raptors NBA Championship parade.
WE THE NORTH!
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deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 12:19 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2019
Prayers and hopes for good health heading your way.
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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 12:30 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2019
Awe hugs for both of you. The best thing he can do is let his body heal and rest. Probably not what he wants to do though. Sending mojo and helping prayers to him.
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hopefull77 ( member #43221) posted at 2:14 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2019
Thank you for the update 🙏 please know you are both in my prayers
me-BS him-WS
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squid ( member #57624) posted at 2:27 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2019
Thoughts and prayers go out to the both of you.
BH
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Divorced 12.10.18
This isn’t what any of us signed up for. But it is the hand that we have been dealt. Thus, we must play it.
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 1:21 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2019
Oh my goodness!!!
I will be praying for him🙏🙏🙏
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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 2:23 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2019
Thank you for the update, lf. I've been told both by a doctor and someone who experienced seizures that they are totally exhausting and draining. That case was a grand mal and there was also an injury involved from falling when it started, according to a witness. The patient had no memory of the actual event or for a while after being in the ER.
I was asked to stay with the patient for several days because they should not be alone after that. This was a 20-something person, and I don't remember how long feeling like that lasted but rest was the doctor's order for that time.
I think I'm around the same age as SMY and I tell my doctor how much I hate it when he tells me, "Well, at your age....." 
for so many things, but it's true that we often take longer to recover. And I know the news of losing Skan really hit me, so I can imagine getting that on top of having personal health concerns too. Just seems sometimes things pile on. ((((HUGS))))
ETA: Not to mention how he is feeling about the license issue. Any one thing alone is bad enough. I'm so sorry.
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Thissucks5678 ( member #54019) posted at 3:12 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2019
I am so sorry. Sending you lots of positive thoughts and prayers. ❤️
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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 4:37 PM on Thursday, June 27th, 2019
..and I hope it's the LAST one... it could be related to 'sleep apnea'..?? 
now I'm jumping through all the medical hoops in hope of getting my driving license reinstated.
I wanted to extend a sincere 'thank you' to all the caring people who asked about my situation and sent their prayers and support..
Si peeps are the BEST...period!!! 
Not looking forward to wearing a C-PAP mask to bed at night, if that's in my future???
Off to see the doctor for my EEG results..
Bye for now.
smy
[This message edited by somanyyears at 9:55 AM, September 6th (Friday)]
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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:58 PM on Thursday, June 27th, 2019
Well, you sound like you're well into recovery, and I hope I read you right.
Just a quick note: Breathe right strips may provide some immediate help. They work for me, and I've been diagnosed with mild sleep apnea.
I recommend them as an immediate step, until you get a diagnosis and treatment.
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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:03 AM on Friday, June 28th, 2019
..thanks for the suggestion sisoon.. those strips may be a logical step towards a solution.
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
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