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I lost my son

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Tripletrouble posted 11/24/2019 23:18 PM

For those who remember me from years past, I have occasionally posted about the difficulties we had with his health. I received good advice and caring words always from my SI family. My worst fear finally became reality and we lost him. The pain is so profound and the emotions so complex I can hardly breathe. I was finally happy again after the trauma of infidelity and divorce, and now I feel completely broken. The morning he died I had not yet been notified and was buying something that was a safety device related to one of his issues. It was always like that, I lived every day trying to think of ways to keep him safe and well, for many years. Every time he called me I panicked. Every time I heard his text tone, I lunged for my phone. I knew his life was fragile, but I was in denial it could actually happen. I'm in complete disbelief that this nightmare is real.

Adlham posted 11/24/2019 23:27 PM

I'm so sorry. I can't imagine.

Sending you much love.

JanaGreen posted 11/24/2019 23:36 PM

I am so terribly sorry for your loss.

Dorothy123 posted 11/25/2019 00:14 AM

I'm very sorry .

Many hugs.

Phoenix1 posted 11/25/2019 00:14 AM

I am so sorry for your loss, Triple.

BraveSirRobin posted 11/25/2019 01:36 AM

Oh, God. I am so very sorry.

No one can prepare for something like this, no matter what medical warnings they may have received. There are places that are simply too frightening for the imagination to go.

Please try to remember how lucky your son was to have had such love and care from you, and how he would want you to feel his love in return, even now. Especially now.

You will always, always be his mother.

annb posted 11/25/2019 04:51 AM

I am so sorry.

Tallgirl posted 11/25/2019 05:05 AM

I am so very sorry you lost your son. My heart goes out to you...

Want2BHappyAgain posted 11/25/2019 05:45 AM

My deepest condolences on the loss of your son (((HUGS))) .

What a CARING person you are...always thinking of ways to make things better for your precious child. His life...although cut way too short...must have been very fulfilling. He KNEW that he ALWAYS had unconditional love from you. That is something that sadly MANY of us go through life without.

minusone posted 11/25/2019 05:56 AM

((((TT))). I canít image the pain. Every parents worst nightmare. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry.

The1stWife posted 11/25/2019 06:35 AM

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Please find a good grief counselor to help you and support you. It can make a huge difference.

Take comfort in the fact you did your best for him. Iím sure he felt it.

tushnurse posted 11/25/2019 07:05 AM


Words cannot express the profound loss you are dealing with.

May you find strength and peace in his memories.

lieshurt posted 11/25/2019 07:05 AM

I'm so very sorry.

ChewedMeUp posted 11/25/2019 08:23 AM

I am so, so sorry. I can't even try to imagine. Much love to you and yours.

Lionne posted 11/25/2019 08:24 AM

Oh, my, I'm so sorry. You are a great mom, don't ever doubt that.

pearlamici posted 11/25/2019 08:33 AM

I am so very sorry for your loss {{{Tripletrouble}}}

Hutch posted 11/25/2019 08:39 AM

As parents our greatest fear is knowing the loss of our children. I am heart-broken to read this. Please know I am thinking of you and offer prayers of comfort and healing, my love, and endless virtual hugs. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Please know I am thinking of you.

BearlyBreathing posted 11/25/2019 08:49 AM

I have no words. ((((Triple)))) i am so sorry.

Chili posted 11/25/2019 09:17 AM

Oh Triple - I am so sorry to hear this news. I can only imagine how you must feel like the rug has been pulled from right under your feet.

Hold tight in knowing that your connection to him was one of deep love. And remember that perhaps your biggest job right now is to take good care of yourself. Please continue to reach out here if it feels right - we're all here thinking of you.

wildbananas posted 11/25/2019 09:46 AM

I'm so very sorry... sending hugs and love.

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